What are “The Rules”?
The Rules are a set of books written for women by women. The authors Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider noticed that women all over the world were suffering needlessly in our love lives so they decided to let us in on the secrets of dating successfully!
I am a Dating and Relationship Consultant and I have been personally trained by Ellen and Sherrie on the Rules to long lasting romance and I want to share this knowledge that I have gained throughout my time with them.
Are your services just for women with disabilities, if so, why?
Yes, I am a Dating and Relationship Consultant for women with disabilities. Long before I was a Dream Girl (DG) I had physical and dating challenges so I looked for someone that could address both of my concerns. Well, I could not find that type of person. So I became her through studying and hard work. I believe that we are all alluring creatures that are meant to have their dreams come true too. And I want to help make yours a reality.
Where are the “Dream Guys”?
They are everywhere, believe it or not! Women ask me on a daily basis “Where are the good guys at?” “Are they all taken or just avoiding me?” No ladies, they are here and looking for you. Over the years, women have stepped or wheeled into the world of profession and taken over. We are CEO’s, Professors, and high ranking politicians. We are no longer desperate housewives, women have power in the game of life but unfortunately some of us are falling short when it comes to finding him. I believe that we have started to treat dating as just another job. Our femininity is key in drawing our Dream Guys to us. We cannot approach romance like we do our careers. Once we recognize this, he will appear.
I’m Married. Do I still have to follow “The Rules”?
You do. The passion that ignited your wedded bliss can remain if you follow “The Rules”.
I just want to date and have fun. Do I still need dating advice?
Of course, you do. And you’ve come to the right place! I love that you’re enjoying being a single Dream Girl. We all watched the “Sex and the City” women parade around NY drinking cosmos and having the time of their lives! But you need to enter that scene armed with wisdom, ladies!
I don’t think he’s a “Rules Guy”. Is it too late for us?
Hmm. That depends on how the relationship was first formed. Did you approach him? Did he end the date first? How often are you two seeing each other? Once I have more information, I’ll be able to determine if this relationship can endure or not.
We broke up. Its sooo hard without him. What should I do?
Breaking up is hard to do. I know, I’ve been there. Should you pine over him and sit by the phone praying for it to ring? That is the last thing you should do. Dream Girls do not chase men. We are not desperate or anxious. Wipe your tears, have faith, we are optimists. Go out and buy a new pair of shoes and walk away. Your Dream Guy awaits…
I’m lonely. I haven’t been on a real date in a while. Is it me?
Well, let’s see. Are you going out to social events? How will he find you if you’re at home reading Vogue? Do you have an online profile? There millions of single men out there looking for someone just like you. Let me help you find him.
Is online dating just a fad?
No, it’s here to stay. It’s another avenue to meet men and you have to take it seriously. Meeting guys online is just as important as meeting them at the mall. Your profile, emails, pictures, and online demeanor all play an important role in finding Mr. Wonderful in cyberspace. There are specific rules that you must know when it comes to online dating services.
Our first date was awesome but he hasn’t called me since! Should I call him?
No. He has your number. If he’s interested then he’ll call. And you’re so busy living your awesome life that you do not have time to wait on him. Call a friend until that urge to hear his harmonious voice passes. And if you followed the rules on your first date, he’ll call!
Mr. Wonderful has arrived and the butterflies are here. I love him! Can I tell him?
Not if you like those butterflies. Men are the hunters and once they are truly in love with you then they have this desire to profess their feelings. And we have to let them.
